Stumbling On Happiness
I am reading a remarkable book,
by Daniel Gilbert, entitled: Stumbling On
Happiness. It speaks to the Researcher
archetype in me... the one who was enthralled as a
psychology major with explanations of the
curiosities of human behavior. Psychology is, at
best, the synergy of a multitude of minor
illuminations that have been woven together to
reveal the universal pathologies of the human mind.
I love the beauty of this paradoxical science - the
attempts to measure the subjective experience that
is beyond objective measurement - due to the fact
that the absolute truth can never be known as long
as human's are the one doing the measuring. It is a
fascinating predicament, that I love getting
tangled in from time to time.
The book is a masterful work of a Harvard
psychology professor who has weaved together
research on the inherent pitfalls of imagination,
foresight, and expectations as they relate to
happiness. I find pleasure in any work that
challenges the most basic tools that I use in my
personal and professional practice (namely:
imagination and sensation)... asking me to
question, refine, and evolve my perspectives,
making them more sound and viable. I highly
recommend it!
From the website:

Most of us
spend our lives steering ourselves toward the best
of all possible futures, only to find that tomorrow
rarely turns out as we had presumed. Why? As
Harvard psychologist Daniel Gilbert explains, when
people try to imagine what the future will hold,
they make some basic and consistent mistakes. Just
as memory plays tricks on us when we try to look
backward in time, so does imagination play tricks
when we try to look forward.
Using cutting-edge research, much of it original,
Gilbert shakes, cajoles, persuades, tricks, and
jokes us into accepting the fact that happiness is
not really what or where we thought it was.
Smart, witty, accessible, and laugh-out-loud funny,
Stumbling on Happiness brilliantly describes all
that science has to tell us about the uniquely
human endeavor to envision the future, and how
likely we are to enjoy it when we get
there.
BTW, you may even enjoy this one even if you are
one who is typically overwhelmed by fact and
figures. Gilbert's writing style is funny,
satirical, and sometimes even has me laughing out
loud. Enjoy!