Stumbling On Happiness
I am reading a remarkable book, by
Daniel Gilbert, entitled: Stumbling On
Happiness. It
speaks to the Researcher archetype in me... the one who
was enthralled as a psychology major with explanations
of the curiosities of human behavior. Psychology is, at
best, the synergy of a multitude of minor illuminations
that have been woven together to reveal the universal
pathologies of the human mind. I love the beauty of
this paradoxical science - the attempts to measure the
subjective experience that is beyond objective
measurement - due to the fact that the absolute truth
can never be known as long as human's are the one doing
the measuring. It is a fascinating predicament, that I
love getting tangled in from time to time.
The book is a masterful work of a Harvard psychology
professor who has weaved together research on the
inherent pitfalls of imagination, foresight, and
expectations as they relate to happiness. I find
pleasure in any work that challenges the most basic
tools that I use in my personal and professional
practice (namely: imagination and sensation)... asking
me to question, refine, and evolve my perspectives,
making them more sound and viable. I highly recommend
it!
From the website:

Most of us spend
our lives steering ourselves toward the best of all
possible futures, only to find that tomorrow rarely
turns out as we had presumed. Why? As Harvard
psychologist Daniel Gilbert explains, when people try
to imagine what the future will hold, they make some
basic and consistent mistakes. Just as memory plays
tricks on us when we try to look backward in time, so
does imagination play tricks when we try to look
forward.
Using cutting-edge research, much of it original,
Gilbert shakes, cajoles, persuades, tricks, and jokes
us into accepting the fact that happiness is not really
what or where we thought it was.
Smart, witty, accessible, and laugh-out-loud funny,
Stumbling on Happiness brilliantly describes all that
science has to tell us about the uniquely human
endeavor to envision the future, and how likely we are
to enjoy it when we get there.
BTW, you may even enjoy this one even if you are one
who is typically overwhelmed by fact and figures.
Gilbert's writing style is funny, satirical, and
sometimes even has me laughing out loud. Enjoy!