HoopGirl Training - Baltimore, MD

HoopGirl Level One
Baltimore, Maryland
I am settling in at home in
Portland, Oregon relaxing after three glorious days in
Baltimore, Maryland! I was there co-facilitating a
HoopGirl Level One Teacher Training. Although I had
taught the course material alongside Christabel on
numerous occasions over the past 3 years (and even
helped co-author many of the concepts), it was a new
dawn for me and for HoopGirl. This was the first
training in which the material would be presented
without Christabel as a facilitator. My intention going
into the weekend: to trust that I would be able
to channel her wisdom - along with my own - and deliver
100% on the promise. And I am so pleased to announce
that we did just that!
I certainly didn't do it alone! My co-trainer
was Jennaluna.
Ripe from her Level 3 training, she was superbly
present as she courageously stepped right into the role
of Trainer! Jenna is a natural facilitator, and it was
such a joy to witness her holding the frequency of a
leader and guide. She was especially potent when she
fully embraced her power and yielded as her teaching
worked through her. I look forward to more
opportunities to teach alongside her... and share in
more late night laughter! I am so grateful to work
alongside colleagues that so soon become friends.
A group of 13 fabulous women arrived on Day One, fully
present and eager to learn about HoopGirl philosophy
and education. I was immediately struck by the presence
of each trainee. As the days unfolded, the attendees
initiated lively discussions that led us into many
expansive explorations of the material. It was so
easy to witness and identify the unique brilliance of
each in attendance:
Noelle is the local hooper who
made the training possible, providing us with the
perfect space and constant support. She is a grounded,
vibrant woman who has an impeccable warmth about her.
Noelle offers observations, questions, and conscious
facilitation that weave richness and depth to the
teaching experience.
Elena and
Tara came from upstate New York,
and I was immediately struck by their shared commitment
and focus. Their community is in for a treat as they
offer a combined synergy that is sure to delight. Elena
wooed us all with her warm and expansive teaching style
that reminded me the power of eye contact and poise.
Tara guided us with an effortless wisdom and a sassy
smile that melted our hearts and brought joy out in our
dance.
Carolann joined us from New Jersey.
She was our diva-goddess guide who demonstrated how
coaching and empowerment can so effortlessly be woven
into teaching hoopdance. I am personally inspired by
her commitment to learn and grow in the direction of
her bliss. Our lunchtime chat was a highlight of my
weekend.
Pam came
to the training with a dream to bring Ohio to life via
the hoop. She blew us all away by her skill level -
after only 6 months hooping, she was teaching all of us
a thing or two! She is a testament of the power of
online study. Not to mention, a natural teacher and
model of how youthfulness is an ageless embodiment.
Chantiel came from Boise, Idaho...
and is also a student of many via her online studies.
She brought a inspiring and penetrating teaching style
that held a powerful space for instruction. I
appreciate her inquisitive and willing presence to
learn and grow.
Katie (aka:
Surprise) joined us from the DC
area. She brought so much creativity to her teaching
via her remarkable attention to detail. I especially
loved her immediate integration of conscious languaging
and ability to reflect back to each of us. Her success
will be no surprise to me.
Tina B (Virginia) brought her
vast teaching experience into the hoop in such a
personal way. She has a sensual and joyous style that
is perfectly suited for the hoop - a mixture of
bellydance and fitness offering a powerful fusion. She
made us all smile and rest into the confidence of her
instruction.
Becca was also from
Virginia, and I can't say enough about the integrity
she possesses. Each time I witnessed her - as trainee
and as teacher - she was in full alignment with who she
is. As a result, her teaching delivered a
yoga-warrior-hoop journey unlike any other.
Leda came to us all the
way from Florida and the performance troupe known as
the Hoola Monsters. She carries the natural poise and
radiance of a performer and it translates perfectly
into her teaching. I celebrate her smile and the power
of her natural abilities as teacher.
Allison blew us away with her
beautiful circus-style contortions during the photo
shoot! And as a teacher, she is a self-possessed bundle
of joy that you can't help but want to connect with and
learn from. She will surely magnetize many joyous
bodies into her classes.
I was always mesmerized when I would
witness Kara hoop
during breaks. A yoga teacher from North Carolina, she
has a fluid and majestic style that may be partially
inspired by the little guy she is expecting from within
- she did the training while 4.5 months pregnant! She
certainly brought the power and radiance of yin alive
through her teaching as she masterfully demonstrated
and "committed" to the task at hand. What an
inspiration for all the mothers out there!
I can't possibly leave out
Candice C. who was from a Maryland
mountain community nearby. She is a warm and delightful
woman who brought a lovely energy into the group. I was
inspired by her choice - one of self-love - to step out
on the second day, choosing to complete the training at
another time. Sometimes the path of least resistance
requires that we yield to an unexpected direction. I
commend her for honoring her inner guidance.
And a very special shout out
to Kelly
Jo... a
previous graduate of the training was the ultimate
assistant to Jenna and I. She went above and beyond the
call of duty, catering to our every need and making a
distant training location feel like home. Thank you so
much for your presence, Kelly Jo! You are a star, for
sure. We missed you on Day 3 and are hoping that you
are feeling much better!
I couldn't possibly fully express the experience of the
past weekend in these few paragraphs. I will simply
share my gratitude to each and every one of the
trainees for bringing their brilliance into the space;
the synergy was inspiring to us all. And thank you,
Jennaluna, for your exquisite partnership and
presence.
A very, very special acknowledgment to Christabel... my
dear friend and creative soulmate. Thank you for
trusting me to deliver the product of your brilliance
to these women. I am the better for it. I hope you know
how you inspire greatness in us all.
Joyous & Grateful!
Candice
In the UK ~ Miracles DO Happen!
HoopGirl Teacher Training
Nuneaton, England
What an amazing way to start out the month! I have been
traveling in the UK, co-teaching HoopGirl teacher
trainings with my soul sister and radiant colleague,
Christabel Zamor. The training is filled with so many
inspirational women (and one man!) with roots
stretching far and wide - England, Scotland, Wales,
Poland, Italy, and Columbia to name a few! Altogether
creating a myriad of accents, talents, and creative
impulses.
It is always an honor to see trainees stepping into
their power as teachers. And working with Christabel -
a powerhouse of inspiration and possibility - is a
total joy! Can I just say I adore our connection?! What
a divine partnership it is. Our joint facilitation is
so effortless and contains an undeniable synergy. Wow.
Lucky for me, we are training through August 5. See you
when I return!
The highlight of my teaching experience thus far is
getting to know Kim, a 20-year old individualist with
pink/purple hair and a variety of strategically-placed
body piercings. She exudes a sensitivity and femininity
beneath a tough exterior. She possesses a potent power
clouded by the uncertainty to be expected at her age. I
observed with fascination when, on Day 3 (the day of
the teaching practicums), she was held hostage by
self-effacing inner dialogue. She was filled with fear
and dread at the thought of teaching in front of 20
other hoopers. Though the space was safe and
supportive, she withdrew feeling powerless. Going to
her, I did my best to penetrate this voice with my own.
Listening through tears, she would nod, smile, and even
laugh at my musings... only minutes later to sink back
into the space of doubt.
Eventually, with some coaching and coaxing by myself
and others, she chose to face her fear. I was so proud
and in awe as she placed the headset on and began to
lead the class with a command and presence I knew would
come so naturally to her. Then it happened... one split
second, a loss of words, and the truth of her
effortless brilliance was again hijacked by fear. She
seemed almost defenseless against it, and as her
shoulders sunk her confidence was lost to her again.
What happened next is like slow motion in my memory.
Christabel and I stood back to allow space for her to
regain her center. Empathically I knew that doing
nothing was the best way to be of service in this
moment. And I watched with understanding and alarm as,
one-by-one, the women around me (Kim's fellow trainees)
began to rescue her. Motherly instincts kicked in, and
each offered their own brand of love and kindness -
some subtly teaching the class for her, and others
ushering her along with physical closeness. As I
witnessed, I noticed the result to Kim's energy... and
something in me took over the space immediately. I
stepped forward, not sure what I was about to do...
just knowing it had to be done, and fast. Kim's soul
was counting on us to do her a greater and higher
service in the moment.
I simply knew - without a doubt - the truth of her
brilliant potential. I firmly requested that everyone
step away from Kim. With conviction I asserted over the
buzz of the group, "I am stepping in here. I am 100%
confident that Kim can do this. And I would like to
give her the opportunity. I am requested that everyone
stop doing this for her, and give her the space to have
the experience she is here to have."
Everyone set their best intentions aside and backed
away... they knew that I was on to something.
Within a minute or two, Kim was back in her power
again. She is truly a lovely facilitator, very
articulate and strong, with her own unique brand of
humor. Throughout the course of her practicum, she lost
her center again a couple of times... but because we
did not feed those voices of self-pity with their
co-dependent counterpart (the rescuer), she was able to
rise from the ashes again and again. I am so proud of
Kim. She is an emblem of courage to me. And to be
pushing through fears like this as such a young
adult... wow. I appreciate what she taught us all
yesterday.
It was a miraculous moment to witness her in her
brilliant glory! 
We all have a choice when
it comes to the negative self-talk (jackals) that can
sometimes vie for our precious energy. It is in
believing the story that our jackals tell us that we
become helpless in connecting to the available
brilliance within. (And yes, it's always available).
Certainly, there is a time to nurture others (and
ourselves) with empathy and understanding. However, it
is easy to cross the line into unhealthy enabling of
untruth when we support anything other than brilliance
with the need to rescue. It's a fine line to walk...
and safe containers (personal growth seminars,
counseling sessions, loving relationships) are where we
can practice a sort of tough love to bring one another
back into the light again.
My thanks to HoopGirl, Christabel, Kim, and all the
other inspiring trainees for this remarkable
opportunity.
HoopGirl Training - Portland
HoopGirl Teacher Training - Portland, OR
September 21 - September 23
I am continually inspired
and grateful to be a part of the HoopGirl Network. It's
really about so much more than hoopdance. Christabel
(HoopGirl Founder) and I just
completed a three-day teacher training here in
Portland. It was a rich experience... facilitating
14 talented individuals in their discovery of their
path as teachers.
There is so much to comment on, that I won't do it
justice here. Let me just speak to the power of
potential recognized. Each and every person in the
training has something significant to offer. Again and
again, I am reminded that the SHiNE philosophy is
reflected all around me. It is such an honor to be a
part of the unleashing of personal power. I feel a
responsibility as a trainer: to do everything within my
power to encourage (in-courage... instill courage) by
reminding each person of the uniqueness that is their
birthright. It feels so rewarding to deliver a message
that resonates through every cell of my being...
what you
bring matters!

Facilitating with
Christabel is an utter joy... she and I came together
only a few months ago with such grace. Our styles
compliment one another brilliantly. And she always
amazes me with her evermore radiant presence,
articulate presentation, and authenticity. She is a
true pioneer - not only in the hooping world - but as a
paradigm-shifter at the cutting edge of conscious
business and co-creation. It is truly an honor to work
alongside her. She has offered me a platform to
exercise my gifts... without her faith in me, it would
be a few paces behind where I am now. I am grateful for
the ways that she has held up a mirror to me, as a
colleague and as a friend.
And Miss Taj... ah, what can I say?
She is a Licensed HoopGirl Teacher who participated
in a teacher training we held in LA a few months
ago. She has since jumped on board to join the team
as a Master Trainer and was present throughout the
week to assist - and did she ever! Her silent
service was such a blessing. She is a powerhouse of
presence, with a silent potency I find intoxicating.
I look forward to many more opportunities to work
with her on various levels.
I will save time by keeping my comments general
regarding the attendees (although I could quite easily
post at length about each trainee and his or her unique
brand of magic). It is the mock teaching practicums and
feedback sessions that light me up... this is always my
favorite aspect of the trainings. To witness the
evolution of each trainee - in just three short days -
is pure inspiration. It takes a tremendous amount of
courage to do what they do... jumping in with both feet
and being receptive to feedback from the group. I
celebrate those raw moments, and express my gratitude
at being able to be a part of it.
Congratulations to all of you... Lacye, Erika, Nathan,
Nicole, Ali, Lynn, Sabine, Karly, Tia, Leslie, Yvette,
Anne, Jennifer, & Lori Lynn. You are all uniquely
gifted... it was a joy to be a part of your unfolding.
SHiNE Seminars - Coming Soon

We just completed Day One
of the Level One HoopGirl Teacher Training. I am in San
Francisco through the weekend for another 3-day
intensive, preparing teachers in the HoopGirl Format.
This is the fourth training that I have led with
Christabel Zamor (HoopGirl Founder). It is such a joy
to train teachers to facilitate and guide others. I am
ever so grateful to Christabel for inviting me to be
the first Master Trainer to work alongside her. We have
such a graceful synergy together. It is a testament to
collaboration... and the power that comes from
combining energies to serve in the best possible way. I
look forward to bringing this training to Portland in
September of this year.
Although I am passionate about training in this
capacity (as the HoopGirl organization is one I believe
in), I know that my experiences leading others in this
way is destined preparation for SHiNE Seminars to come.
I witness myself light up
when I have the
opportunity to inspire another individual to recognize
his or her unique genius. When I notice that sparkle in
the eyes... the one that emerges when a trainee
realizes that they do
have something
to offer... that everything needed to reach his or her
ultimate potential exists within...
when I see that brilliance reflected in their eyes even
for a moment, I know that I am living my
purpose.
Certainly, my experience as a somatic educator lends
itself to training teachers in a movement modality.
Yet, in the past six months, it has become very clear
that so much of what I bring to the training
environment has to do with my passion for the
illumination that can be found in seeking out
truth.
Truth, to me, is shining a loving light on what is
there. And what is
there may in fact be changing
from moment to moment... yet, the truth speaks only to
the moment. It says, "this is what is here now." It
says, "I dare to shine light on what is here... and use
this awareness to transform my reality from this moment
forward." In that way, honoring the truth of our
experience in each moment IS what makes transformation
possible
As a facilitator, I find that
telling the truth is a
medicinal art
to be delivered with purity... the purest aim: to
liberate the light within. We can each learn to tell
ourselves the truth about who we are... what matters to
us... and how we are keeping ourselves from being the
most luminous version of ourselves. When we are able to
see with this degree of clarity and an open heart, then
awareness dissolves fears and freedom is found.
I look forward to moving SHiNE to a place where we can
do this work together. Regardless of your medium of
self-expression in life, you have the option to live in
dim lit awareness... or bask in the glory of truth and
illumination.
Truth
says, "ah, there is light in
here... let us move towards it."
I look forward to offering the first SHiNE Seminar in
the coming months so that we can share the journey with
one another. Stay tuned... and let me know if you have
areas of interest that might inform the creation of the
SHiNE seminar programming. What are your interests as
it relates to SHiNE? What fears do you want most to
overcome as it relates to living a brilliant life? What
stops you from doing more of what you love today? I
would love to hear from you! Email me with your ideas and
insights...